Beautiful experiance

I am back after a long time to fill up some thing at my blog. What am I going to write? I had enough things to write as I have gone through so much of things during my week long vacation at my home town. Let me tell some thing about my home town.
My home town is named as Komarapalayam. Close to Erode and River Cavery splits my town and other town called Bhavani. Since it’s been gifted with water Agriculture is the profession at most places. Also being located close to textile cities, It also involved some Power looms deployed and gets the product like Lungi ( You can say it as Dothi), Hand towels and may other clothing products. You can not ignore Transport and real estate business. I think this is sufficient to tell about my town.
It was on 22nd May 2010 a wonderful Saturday I got an opportunity to view some reality in my life. It was the day when my grand father has asked me to join him for a visit for our very distant relatives. Even I was geared up to meet then as I have not seen then for years and I did not get opportunity to see them. So I decided to make a visit with out any much expectation. But It has fulfilled my long time wish and satisfied me much about my expectations.
I picked up my grand father at my factory home and I started first to my aunty house. The Purpose of visit here was to see my aunty and make her comfortable as my uncle was arrested due to some unavoidable and unacceptable incident. We went to their house first which was in the other town Bhavani. Door was locked. We enquired and found that my aunty, her son and her daughter in law are at their factory house. They owned cotton mill (Special cotton used for making bed and pillows). It was located in a village area. It had a wonderful road. We reached there and entered the house. My Aunty took some time to recognise me as she is getting aged. But she managed to identify me. Real surprise was I do not know anything about my aunty daughter in law. But she was able to identify me and she knows top to bottom of me including my Onsite visit. It was really a great pleasure for me.
After a wonderful coffee we moved to my aunt’s daughter house. It was closely located. Bout my uncle and my sister recognised me. It was a surprise to see then and their grown up kids. I can not believe I was able to feel the same love and affection from that sister even after ages. I was really thrilled and we where speaking the same way we used to speak before 15 years. Not even a singe % change. It was really great feeling for me after seeing so many people changing then and their as life goes on.
Then my uncle took us to their form. It was away for about 5 kilo meter from the home. It was very village area with very minimal house and plenty of agricultural land. Again after a very long time I saw a well with full of water even in this hot hot summer. Water was very clear and fabulous in taste. I did not take some alternate cloths because of which I missed to dip myself in to the well. Then we moved on to the field. He has planted full of coconut trees and some fruits. In Tamil fruit name is Sappota and I am very lazy to find the correct English name. Fields were about 4 Acers. I did not miss the opportunity to watch beautiful peacock. It was about 5 in numbers. My uncle said it would be around 100 in the area. He even said they have witnessed the dance of peacock during rainy days. Lucky guys.
We then started to another Aunty house. It was 5 to 7 Kilo meters from the form area. When I was driving felt what a clean road and well connected in cross and making easy connect to near by village instead of taking long roots. It was no wonder even if the city will be having such good roads. Also I did not find any single concrete house in the area. Its all made of huts. We lost roots the others village. We just enquired 1 Kilo meter before about the route. Yet another surprise waited for me. Shopkeeper was able to guide me directly to the house just by knowing my aunty and uncle name. There might be some 150 house in that village. It’s really great to keep remembering all people.
Finally we reached my next aunt’s house. No wonder the house was locked. We enquired and found that they are in the filed taking the chattels mainly buffalos to feed then in the forms. The Sky was getting darker and it showed the symptoms for heavy rain. I did not miss to see the rainbow in the sky. We moved on had yet another coffee at this aunty house also and returned back home.
I had to share this experience just to bring you to know that there is real wonderful world and people out side the so called Big city. I do live in city only to earn money. But I do not have peace. I have to travel long distance with full packed commuting systems in the city. You can not catch train, Bus at peak hours. You have to accept costly commuting in Auto or Call taxi some times. Food prices are very high and I myself being reason to create more and more inflation. Very few kind hearted people.How did my experience differ from the city which I am used to it. During my above travel I did not find any crowd. I was can see people travelling comfortably with clean air even with out much extraordinary commuting system other than Bus. I was able to see the green every where I was travelling. Kind hearted peoples every where. Key thing is they are self sufficient people except few commodities which can be grown in different climatic places. They have their own Milk, Rice, vegetables and above all pure drinking water at free of cost. They don’t use AC at home even then working very hard in the open field with full of heat from the sun. They behave better than a highly literate people. They have peace of mind and have a sound sleep with out any disease in the body. But we people at city just run behind the money and making agricultural land to industrial land and continue to be very Lazy with no peace of mind and body full of disease.

Go green and Make India clean

WOMEN IN LIFE

This time I choose to write about women. This gives me immense pleasure to do my work on this topic. I took so much of time to conclude what to write. I am a person who had a very little part for women’s in life other than my mother and now it’s my wife and few of my hearty well wishers in Bangalore , Chennai , My home town and other places. I dedicate this topic to my love kanishka who made me to think on this topic.
Beauty………..
Beauty is what first comes when you speak about women. “I have travelled around the world and Indian women’s are more beautiful than any in the world” --- FIELD MARSHAL SAM MANEKSHAW the highest ranked Military officer. What a sweet words about Indian women from a toughest man. Cosmetics, Fashion, Jewellery, Beauty products are born because of women. India has got a lot more natural products flourish for women. Women in other part are also very beauty. This makes men to feel better and attain something from women.
Love…
Men have the feeling of love defiantly because of women. Love initially is from the mother and later on from the wife. This doesn’t mean men do not have love. But women have more care and affection.
Pain in life……….
Women have got more pain than a man in a day to day life. It’s a physical changes and challenge they face from certain point of age and continues life long. Men never come across such difficulties
New relation……..
Women defiantly bring in a new relationship in to a men’s life. Wedding is one of the best examples. New IN-LAWS, cousin and more others. This join hands between 2 families which is not known to each other before
Change of Life….
Why this society has made a system by which women has to leave the parental place and move in to hubby’s portion with new faces around. It is a challenging task to make over the change after a moving quarter of life.
Mother Hood…
I consider all women as GOD for the very respectable and unimaginable stuff of giving birth to a life. Men’s role is just giving a drop of life to women. But a woman has to carry all the pain and toughest task to grow the little life with in her. The pain of child delivery has got no words for me to describe. I think in India too we must implement the rule of husbands stay in the room during deliver.

Life for children…
Rest of the life a woman goes through is to bring up the life she has given birth to a wonderful stage and care for the beautiful family

Before moving in to the next topic I like to consider I have covered most of the women’s challenge.

Society..
Do you believe this society is doing enough for the women? The answer is a big NO. Simple reason is MEN wants to rule. Man can live in a society doing 100 bad things. But women can not live in the society for a very simple mistake committed. I consider women to be a glass which the society wants to break and put it under the feet. That’s the reason we are still not able to impose 33% women’s bill in India. Let’s not forget one thing. We consider ourself as an Independent nation
Is it true? Nope not at all. We are still trying to get India Independence
“India will be Independent only when a woman can walk with all her jeweller all alone at mid night” words from father of over nation MAHATMA GANDIJI. Let’s take small steps towards it. JAI HIND

Traffic Decipline

A working day begins you can not forget thinking about Traffic which always scares. Its part of every individual life in the Big, medium or small city \ towns of India. Who is responsibile? Immediate answer from every one will be poor traffic police perfomance, Poor infrastructure, Poor roads ect ect. How many of you are ready to put up your hands and accept it is also because of you? first said reasons might be 25%. 75% is because of every individual.

Hydrabad will be very best example for bad traffic. I was in a AP tourisam bus way towards nagarjuna sagar dam, very friendly and good driver started the trip saying Hydrabadi will not follow traffic rule in Hydrabad, so am I.

Why is traffic because of every individual. We do not want to follow the traffic rule. We want to reach in a hurry making others delay. Is there a driver willing to wait and go?